I have a some question About barnevernet !!!

[Anonym bruker]

Maybe stupid but i want to be sure . I have some psychologic problem. I was in war when i military in turkey. And i see many dead people my firends shut by my side . We sleep on Mountain many months. And when i am turkey i get many years psychologic therapy. Last 5 yearsi had no problem i can sleep better no bad dreams notingh. Until terrorist groups attacking turkey again . Last bomb in ankara i lose my uncle and 3 firends . And now everything is come back . Now i cant go out from my house i get stresse. I never ever looked people like a racist. I love everyone i had no problems with peoplesbit when i am in centrum if i see some one beard or some body from iraq surie i get stresse and i chance my way . Is stupid but auto control is not my hands i cant stop doing this and i hate this ... Now i cant sleep the nights when I close my eyes i see pictures from my old life dead peoples blod .some nights get worst i can even feel the blod... Every night I sleep 1 hour rest of day i am walking dead... I have 2 beautiful amazing girls only when i see them i can be happy and forget everything.. I am trying to don't show what i am feeling what had in my life . My wife she is norvegian and we don't fight we dont have any problems. We love each other like first day. Love is growing but never less.. Ther is my question when i am my fastlege we talking about my problems and thats day she ask about my children and my girls is 20 days and 3.5 years. old she ask about my little girl dr. And she says i want to check how is she is or she healthy or something. And I told this my wife she say this is not good maybe my fastlege Thinks my psychology is not good maybe she can call barnevernet and they come and check us . My biggest fear to lose and break my family.. This is reason to barnevernet can take my child from me ? Because of my psychology problems ? And i get medesin nosinan imovana but i dont wat to use them also when i had children i dont want to use them.. Sorry my bad English also .. I hope i can explain what is my fears. And problems . I hope somebody answer and make me relax .

 

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[Anonym bruker]

You dont have to fear barnevernet. They do not take children away unless there is major neglect!

 

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[Anonym bruker]

It sounds like you have post traumatic stress disorder.

I would recommend that you ask your fastlege to apply for a psychologist.

 

 

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[Anonym bruker]

You dont have to fear barnevernet. They do not take children away unless there is major neglect!

 

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Du burde kanskje ikke uttale deg så bastant om noe du tydeligvis ikke kan mye om?

 

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[Anonym bruker]

I work in barnevernet.

 

Nobody will take your children because of what you describe. It is a myth that children are taken away all the time. The percentage of children removed from their family is very low, and most families who are in touch with child protection services are so because they voluntarily receive help and advice.

 

I think you should listen to your doctor, take the medicines she recommends, and probably seek further psychological help. Primarily for your own sake. If your worries about the child protection services makes it difficult to trust your doctor, I would talk about that with her.

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[Heydo33]

I have appointment next month with psychlog my fastlege say DPS . But i am scared to talk some dr my problem. Because of barnevernet .

[Anonym bruker]

I have nothing to add, I just want to wish you good luck

 

I am sorry to hear about the bad things you have been through, and I hope everything works out well for you and your family.

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[Anonym bruker]

I have nothing to add, I just want to wish you good luck  I am sorry to hear about the bad things you have been through, and I hope everything works out well for you and your family. Anonymous poster hash: ab053...316

Thank you so much i am living just my girls and my wife now only my fears is losing them ...

 

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[Anonym bruker]

If your girl is only 20 days old it is normal that the health centre will come to your home and check if everything is OK. They do that with almost all newborn babies in Norway. This is nothing to be afraid about. It is just standard procedure.

You dont have to be afraid of barnevernet. They dont take the children unless their situation is really, really bad.

I would recommend that you listen to your doctor and pyshcologist, and the health centre. They are only there to help you.

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[Anonym bruker]

Take a look at this, have your wife translate if you don't read Norwegian.

 

http://www.modum-bad.no/eks-soldater-faar-hjelp/

 

It is a treatment center where they also treat post traumatic problems from war.

 

You can also copy this and show it to your doctor, and he/she can apply for you to go there for treatment.

 

And one more thing - do take a sleeping pill in the evening if you cannot sleep. If you cannot sleep you will probably feel worse and worse and get more and more pictures from your past traumatic experiences.

If you are afraid of taking a sleeping pill, tell your doctor about it.

 

You can get it better, but you need some help to get there.

The symptoms you have are typical for post traumatic war experience, so what you experience is normal reactions. But you need help to treat them so they no longer control your days.

 

Good luck in the future and with treatment - and congratulations with your youngest daughter too

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[Anonym bruker]

When you go to the DPS, tell them about your fear for barnevernet. They will tell you if you have something to fear. You can also ask your doctor if there are something he/she has picked up and if there are anything to fear.

 

Because you're not a single parent I belive that it is less likly barnevernet will interfere...

 

But i think it is important that you ask.Ask what you wounder about. Talk about your fear with barnevernet and they will tell you.

 

Good luck. The best thing and most important thing you can do for yourself and your family is to seek help. That will show everyone that you try to get better.

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[Anonym bruker]

Thank you for every one . i am trying hard but so hard to explain. I hate war i hate guns ...

 

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