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[Gjest]

hey i just want to say to those considering taking an abortion, its nothing against you or anything like that, im not saying anything about that u shouldnt take one, coz i dont know everyones situation, but i just wanna say that for those considering then make a proper choice and stick with your decision, u have to think about all the possiblities, not just think about the things that worry you, coz it just drives me insane when i read things like this----

 

 

for min beste venninne, som ønsker seg barn og har latt min graviditet gå hardt inn på seg.. NYTT 15:04 3.09.2006

 

...hun er født 030588, veldig søt, skaffet seg rødt hår.. min graviditet har gått inn på henne ettersom hun hadde en abort 30 januar, og hun angrer. jeg ønsker henne alt godt selvfølgelig, hun har vært prøver i to måneder nå. Kan du si noe om når du hun blir gravid ?

 

 

I found it in the spå debate on dinbaby.com, obviously this girl has changed her mind just because her friend got pregnant and decided to keep the baby, my best friend had an abortion a few weeks before i found out i was pregnant and suddenly after i told her she realised she regretted it and is now talking about finding a weekend daddy or a guy just to get her pregnant, its crazy she is almost in exactly the same position as before the only difference is that her friend has a baby, if your gonna take an abortion really think it through.

i felt guilty through my whole pregnancy coz someone was jealous, it wasnt fair at all.

 

what does everyone else think? do u think im just being stupid? maybe it would be a good idea that everyone talks to a counceller before and after an abortion so they can really get a grip on what they are feeling etc, so there is no confusion.

 

a baby is a baby i dont think its fair to have an abortion and then get pregnant straight afterwards, like if u accidently ran over your cat so then u just get a replacement one the same day.

 

[Gjest]

Ser det er innlegget mitt du prater om..

 

Og siden du heller ikke vet hvorfor hun tok abort er det greit om du holder kjeften på deg. Ja, hun angrer på at hun fikk ungen, men når jeg ser kvalitetene på faren, er jeg sjeleglad hun tok abort.. Mannen ble ettervært voldelig ovenfor henne, ikke på noen måte egnet til å være far. Og hun hadde det så tungt at hun følte hun ikke ville klare det. Dessuten ønsket eller prøvde hun ikke å bli gravid den gangen

[Gjest]

Im not saying anything about her taking the abortion if u read properly, but is she planning on getting pregnant with the same guy or some stranger of blink this time? coz what i read of that entry was that she was planning on getting pregnant again! THATS what im annoyed about, not the actual abortion of course, im against abortion, but i know that there are many situations where i cant say that abortion is 100% wrong.

maybe it was a little strong what i said coz there is many women that get psychological problems after an abortion that they cant predict, but as her friend you should just help her get over the abortion maybe, your kind of in the same situation as i was, i felt so guilty through the pregnancy that i wished that she could have a baby like me, etc, but its not the best idea, coz the reasons why she wanted the abortion in the first place are still there.