abortion after week 12

[Anonym bruker]

what does everyone think about that? in norway you can apply for an abortion up to 18 weeks, is it just anyone that can do that for any reason? i know someone who is married and has a 1 year old, and she is almost 14 weeks pregnant and she is applying for an abortion, just because of relationship problems etc she knew she was pregnant since she was around 7 weeks and has just decided now. do you think they will let her? if so do they just let anyone for any made up reason?

[Anonym bruker]

Up to 16 weeks they normally let anyone who wants it have an abortion, after that you would need a good medical reason. I guess they'd want to know why it took so long to decide, but if she really doesn't want the child it probably for the best that she has it removed..?

[Gjest]

its so sad though, i remember at my sons ultrasound he was sucking his thumb and everything before 16 weeks if she really doesnt want it then i guess its best for the baby if she didnt have it, but she said that if she isnt allowed to have it then she would love it anyway, so she is very contradicting, if she is so decided on having an abortion then if they dont let her then wont she just go to sweden or something? weird. i think she is just hormonal etc and she is having problems with her husband, maybe she wants some attention from him or maybe she wants to hurt him, because she was planning on getting pregnant and then suddenly she changed her mind, she already has one from before and she is quite happy with him, they both have jobs etc i remember when i was pregnant i said all the time that i didnt want him even when i was giving birth hehe i had much pregnancy and birth depression, but deep down i knew i would change my mind and love him its so crazy though, none of us have jobs, im 22, i havent even finished high school coz i had leo during my last year, we seriously have no money, a single parent gets more from trygdekontoret than we do, i have no family, no contact with my mother etc im like the worst case for keeping a baby almost hehe i even suffer from depression, but i am so happy with my son, he is happy too we just scrape by, my boyfriend is even selling his car, but we have love hehe i am such a hopeless old fasioned romantic