Please Advice my right as singel mother ( fully uderstand norwegian, my writting in norwegian not perfect )

[Anonym bruker]

1 year ago I just graduated from interior school I was about starting getting a job and want to build carrier. I have been single almost 4 years I had really bad broken hearth so take time to heal. I got a job in Oslo and start working and live my life and want concentrated build up my Carrie but I guess what you always plan in life not always turn as you plan. About 9 more or less I am falling in love, is like love first site, just perfect. My heart just say he is the one, I want spend all my life with. He is Norwegian 31 years old and from mandal. Thing go so fast with us and we are so much in love , so after 3 month being together I drop my job in Oslo and move with him to mandal, so I choose big love the carrier, I took a big chance. Which never regret it.

 

He is very charming, loveable .smart ect. After 3 month moving in together with him thing was great and nice, after 4 month something change completely with him, it start when I hide my bills I dint want him to know is my problem, I don’t want him to know about it and I don’t want him pay my bills that mine, I am still in title have privacy we are not married yet. But he finds out about it and got really angry and push me til I lose balance I never see him like that. Afterward he apologize he was tired and he was on sleeping pill he lose control and black out. But then the sleeping pill and anti depression just get worse I dint know all this not till I am move in and dint know how bad, he miss use the pills. I am so much in love with him I just look at it everyone have there own story, but he become more insecure and controlling ,paranoia. So we fight a lot of small thing, that happen when he feel insecure or jealous. Then I got pregnant and he was please and happy because he want kid too, but by that time I am 6 week pregnant, he hit me right on my chest till I am losing balance in two the ground is because I am asking him about the note that he wrote for me and I don’t understand. Like everyman does he beg and ask forgiveness. But that all just word. So finally i leave him i have to think about the baby and me during my pregnancy.

 

He have threat me to take the baby away from me, and also he said i come from wealthy family we have money and can pay best lawyer.

 

Can he sue me and take the baby from me ?

[Anonym bruker]

Talk to the doctor..

 

[Anonym bruker]

I have talk with my doctor , she advice me to stay away and say nothing. but i want know my lgea right-

[alenemed1. ♥]

if u can prove that he has been violent and has hit u he will most likely not win a costody fight. Do u think he will be a good father? allot of guys are jerks but they can still be good dads.

U can put father unknown on the papers not an easy thing to do, there is allot of things 2 consider, like the baby`s right 2 know it`s father. The father can also go 2 the court and demand a dna test even tho u say father unknown.

U should talk 2 someone get ur midwife ( jordmor) 2 recomand someone. ( I went 2 something called familiekontoret) there are different offices 2 deal with situations like urs in the different kommunene in all of norway.

 

[Anonym bruker]

Nå skriver HI at hun forstår norsk godt, så tenker at det kanskje er bedre enn din SMS-engelsk??

[alenemed1. ♥]

oi ups... så dumt av meg.. bare det at når noen skriver på engelsk så pleier jeg å svare på engelsk jeg, bare en ting jeg har lagt til meg.

Hadde du noe å utsette på hva jeg skrev eller måtte du bare kritisere?

sms engelsk er det ikke.. eneste forkortelsene som er brukt er u istedenfor you og 2 istenfor to og too. ganske vanlig forkortelser brukt på data men for all del.

[Anonym bruker]

Hi

Is a while since last time I am in this site....

I just want to say thank you very much for ur guide

Or respond . We all doing fine. I take ur advice

And just say thing change to be alot better, he is change so much

After my daughter was born.

 

Again thank you.